I’M in! but…I Don’t Like the Rules

If Christ truly cam to set us free, AND HE DID!, why does it seem like Christianity is defined by all these rules we have to follow? 

I’M IN! but …I don’t want to end up like most Christians I know

If the Resurrection is powerful, AND IT IS!, why do people who claim to be defined by it struggle to be genuinely changed by its power?